Dil Ki Baat Anjaan Ke Saath

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Dil ki baat Anjaan ke saath—main aapka swagat hai…

Sabse pehle, Thank you to everyone.

Honestly, I’m feeling lost and exhausted as exam days are getting closer. I’m becoming more nervous and anxious, and it feels like time is running out. I’m unable to do anything properly.

Main roz plans banata hoon,
aur roz unhe khud hi kharab kar deta hoon.

Ek baat jo maine seekhi hai, wo ye hai ki koi bhi plan perfect nahi hota. Rigid or ideal plans banane se behtar hai ki problems likhi jaayein aur unke realistic solutions pe kaam kiya jaaye. Flexibility aur problem-solving zyada important hoti hai, na ki flawless planning.

Mujhe samajh hi nahi aa raha ki is sab ke baare mein baat kisse karoon.

Pichhle kuch din mere liye kaafi tough rahe hain, aur jo kuch mere family ke andar hua, use dekh kar abhi tak yakeen nahi hota. Achhi baat ye rahi ki family tensions—jinhe mere parents aur elders tak ko pata nahi tha—kuch siblings ki madad se kaafi had tak solve ho gaye.

Par meri main problem padhai hai.

Main padhna chahta hoon, par mera dimaag atak sa gaya hai. Samajh nahi aa raha ki kya karna chahiye aur kya nahi. Ye break lene ka bilkul sahi time nahi hai, phir bhi andar se lagta hai jaise mujhe ek break chahiye.

Main study plan banana chahta hoon, par samajh nahi aa raha kaise.

Main ChatGPT ka use karta hoon plans banane ke liye, aur wo helpful bhi hai, lekin har baar unhe analyze karna padta hai—jo kaafi time le leta hai.

Mere notes are incomplete. Kuch chapters ache se prepared hain, par kai chapters mein maine sirf lectures dekhe hain, proper notes nahi banaye.

Ab dheere-dheere confidence bhi kam hota ja raha hai.

Na to enough question practice hui hai,
Na hi maine proper tests diye hain.

Sab kuch ek saath jama hota ja raha hai—
adhura kaam, unexpected distractions,
aur waqt… jo haathon se ret ki tarah phisal raha hai.

Mujhe pata hai next step kya lena hai.
Par meri sabse badi problem consistency hai.
Distractions, ghar ke kaam, aur taunts cheezon ko mushkil bana dete hain—par impossible nahi.

Mujhe khud ko yaad dilana hoga ki har chhoti koshish matter karti hai. Agar kabhi focus toot bhi jaaye, to main dobara shuru kar sakta hoon. Key perfection nahi, progress hai.

Koi bhi excuse mere dreams se zyada strong nahi ho sakta.
Main control mein hoon,
aur main aage badhta rahunga…

“Socha tha safar aasan hoga,
magar raaste uljhanon se bhare mile…”

“Jitni koshish ki chalne ki,
utni hi rukawaton ke dhundh chhaye mile…”

“Himmat rakho to manzil bhi karegi intezaar,
bas ek baar khud pe yakeen dikhaye mile…”

— A. Kumar (^.^)

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