"Dosti: Ek Rishta Khamoshiyon Ka ๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿ’ž"

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Disclaimer: This blog is written in Hinglish because I believe that Hinglish conveys feelings better.

 Aisa nahi hai ki main dost banana nahi chahta, par main thoda sa darta aur ghabrata hoon. Kabhi-kabhi lagta hai ki jisko maine apna dost maana, kahin woh mujhe dhoka na de de. Isi darr ki wajah se, aaj se lagbhag 8 mahine pehle, maine ek ladki ko dekha tha. Mujhe usse baat karni thi, par ghabrahat aur logon ke darr ki wajah se main peeche hat gaya. Face-to-face baat karne ke bajay, maine usse online chat karna shuru kiya.

Mere hisaab se, woh mujhe sabse achhi dost lagti hai. Jab bhi usse baat karta hoon, mann halka ho jaata hai. Kabhi-kabhi mann karta hai ki bas usse gale laga kar thank you bol doon—har us cheez ke liye jo maine usse seekhi hai. ❤️
Woh mujhse chhoti hai, par baatein badi-badi karti hai. Uske saath ek alag hi vibe hai. Mujhe hamesha ek aise dost ki zarurat thi jo samjhe aur guide kare—and woh bilkul aisi hi hai.

Kabhi-kabhi maine usse kuch offensive reels bhej di, jinka matlab mujhe khud bhi theek se nahi pata tha. Par usne kabhi gussa nahi kiya. ๐Ÿ˜… Bas itna kaha ki kisi aur ko mat bhejna. Tab mujhe samajh aa gaya tha ki maine kuch galat bhej diya hai. Phir bhi, dil se woh bohot achhi hai.

Woh mujhe positivity sikhati hai. ๐ŸŒŸ
Woh care karti hai, kabhi bore nahi hoti, aur jab main udaas hota hoon, toh baatein karke mujhe better feel karati hai. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Aise dost milte nahi hain.
Aur agar mil jaayein, toh unhe hamesha apne saath sambhaal kar rakhna chahiye.

Aur haan, kuch din pehle ek aur ladki ne mujhe message kiya tha. Usse studies ko lekar kuch tips chahiye the, aur usne dosti ke liye bhi kaha. Maine haan bola aur poocha ki dosti ka matlab uske liye kya hai. Usne kaha ki dosti wahi hoti hai jo support kare—aur yeh baat mujhe sahi lagi. Mujhe aise hi doston ki zarurat hai jo mujhe samjhein aur sahi decisions lene mein madad karein.

Continues in the next blog…

Dil ke kone mein ek jazba chhupa rehta hai. ๐ŸŒŸ
Har ek dosti mein ek asar sa basa rehta hai. ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’•
Jo samajh le khamoshi ko, woh dost hai asli. ๐Ÿซ‚✨
Jo dikhaye sahi raah, uski baat hai khaas si. ๐ŸŽฏ๐Ÿ›ค️
Zindagi ke safar mein kai log milte hain. ๐Ÿšถ‍♂️๐Ÿšถ‍♀️
Par kuch hi hote hain jo dil ke paas rehte hain. ๐Ÿ’ž
Dosti ek rishta hai jo samajh par tikta hai. ๐Ÿ•Š️
Na shart, na faayda—bas pyaar pe jeeta hai. ❤️
Kabhi hansate hain, kabhi aansoon baant lete hain. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ญ
Sukh aur dukh dono mein saath rehte hain. ๐ŸŒˆ☁️
Dosti ek chirag hai, jo andhere mein roshni deta hai. ๐Ÿ•ฏ️
Har musibat mein apnapan sa bhar deta hai. ๐Ÿ›ก️๐ŸŒŸ
Aisi dosti ko hamesha sambhaal ke rakho. ๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿ’•
Zindagi ke har mod par isse saath le chalo. ๐Ÿ›ฃ️
Dost jo mile hain, unki kadar kar lo. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’–
Kyunki dosti ek anmol tohfa hai—isse amar kar lo. ๐Ÿ…๐Ÿ’Ž

— A. Kumar ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅ€

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